“aborted fetuses are not technically lives and it’s harmful and not medically accurate to refer to them that way” and “people who have early miscarriages of wanted pregnancies are still allowed to grieve and consider them their child” are two statements that can and should coexist
“people who made the difficult decision to have an abortion because it’s right for them and their situation are still allowed to grieve how things could have been if their circumstances had been different” is another statement that should be added
